7 Tips You Can Use to Power-Up Your Life, and Stop Power Give-Aways!
At some point in life, each of us has blindly consented to a thought, feeling, word, idea, action, emotion, or even a story, without innerstanding what we consented to.* It happens. Often. But saying no when you mean yes, or yes when you mean no, or not making a choice at all when you have one -- has energy and life consequences.
For example, you may have said "yes" so you didn't have to deal with the drama. You may have even though it's no big deal to go along this one time. But in reality, when you consented, you gave away a piece of your personal power, authority, and autonomy to another person to potentially use against you. Generally speaking you gave up your free will to determine your choices and life experiences -- small and large.
Unfortunately, every time you say yes when you mean no, etc., your power is syphoned away, and victimization patterns are activated in your field. Moreover, these patterns repeat in your life until they are released through energy optimization work.
What does a power give-away look like? Here are 18 real-life examples:
Not being yourself because you will be judged, punished, different, rejected, etc.
Comparing and thinking someone else is "better" because they appear to have more money, success, education, intelligence, attractive qualities, are younger, older, etc.
Choosing to stay silent and not speak up for fear of losing a relationship, or being abused.
Living and acting in a certain way to meet others' expectations of you.
Looking outside yourself for love, validation, approval, and self-worth instead of loving and accepting the wonderful, divine soul that you are.
Letting your employer take advantage of you because you need the job and the money.
Treating each connection as a transaction that's focused on "taking/getting" vs reciprocity.
Staying in a relationship because you are fearful you won't find another partner or friend.
Blaming others for the things you have done and not accepting responsibility for them.
Apologizing and taking the blame for things you did not do.
Feeling undeserving after a job loss or layoff because you could have worked harder, done better.
Taking on the role of the "bad one" so another can be the "good one."
Making yourself small to fit in, be liked, or belong.
Letting people deceive you or take advantage of your time, talents, kindness, and money.
Not wanting to see what's real versus illusion; preferring to keep the blinders on.
Feeling stuck but choosing not to make a decision that moves you forward.
Denying someone hurt you because you don't want to see the truth and have to make different choices.
Staying in a position that pays good money but doesn't fulfill your because you have bills to pay.
Why is this important to address?
Personal power is foundational to your ability to create and to magnetize the life you desire. It exemplifies your own unique levels of autonomy, balance, self-love, and abundance. When your personal power is low, your abilities to create and attract what you desire are greatly reduced. And your health and vitality can also decline as your energy field doesn't receive the nourishment it needs to thrive and shine.
Unfortunately, when you give power away, what you consent to shows up as a power loss in your energy field. Over time, if this happens enough, your authority (personal or internal power) is whittled away. And if one is consenting to abuse or hurtful actions, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant, rips, tears, holes, and gaps can result in the energy field.
When this occurs, the energy field leaks, internal power is diminished, and the individual can attract similar situations into their life until different choices are made.
Most of the time when people give their power away, it’s in exchange for something they believe is lacking – love, money, health, job, success, etc. But the reasons behind the loss are based in fear. Some consciously, others unconsciously, due to conditioning, belief systems, judgements, mass media influences, and more. Power losses can also be due to curses and spells placed upon an individual. Fortunately, power give-aways can be reversed.
Here are seven ways you can "power up" your life:
Stop giving power away to negative thoughts, feelings, fears, people, actions, and situations. Say No, I Do Not Consent to this thought/feeling, etc. then sweep your hand from left to right (like a wiperblade) to clear your energy field. Next, say Detach to remove your energy and then say Disconnect to remove yourself from the situation/person.
Be thoughtful about the choices you make. Don't make hasty agreements. Consider the options and consequences before you say Yes, No, or don't act. Power give-aways can happen with any of these options.
Be clear about what you Do and Do Not Want in your life. Words are powerful stuff. The moment you say a word aloud, you are issuing a command, and your heart intelligence starts fulfilling your request. As a result, words can be used as spells, hexes, and curses. Choose your words wisely. Avoid curse words. Spells and curses are real. With millions using these words daily, each word holds the power to create curses and spells every time you speak them aloud, wish, or think them.
Express gratitude by flipping from the negative to the positive. Each time you complain about something you don't like, you create more things to complain about. (Law of attraction.) Instead of focusing on the negative, focus on what you do like, want, and enjoy. What brings fun, makes you laugh. Then you'll create more of it in your daily life. Remember: Where your attention goes, energy flows, and it creates what you want -- so focus on the good stuff.
Do not consent to or hold doubts. Doubts are half-hearted attempts at creation. They weaken the power behind your request. If you have a doubt, say aloud: No, I do not consent to this doubt. Delete.
Release all cording. Some people consciously and unconsciously "cord" individuals to take their power and control them. These cords are seen only on the etheric level, but they can wreak havoc on the physical body by restricting organ flow and chi that runs throughout the body. Don't cut the cords you see and/or feel. They need to be removed completely. To do this, visualize/imagine silver-violet light around them and ask your heart-essence to release them. If they are invasive, and too hard to remove, set up a session with me.
Engage in pattern identification and release work. In my sessions and workshops, I help clients to identify and release negative energy patterns in their field. What's a negative energy pattern? It's when a life story, the characters, and the plot change, but the end result is always the same. Time and again. In other words, same ending, different story.
With energy release work, we remove the offending patterns, then realign and rebalance your energy system to the highest frequencies to welcome in new potentials and possibilities. If you are interested in powering up through quarterly Glow-Ups, Reclaiming Your Power! or Powering-Up Your Personal Power and Magnetism, visit the Services section on my website and sign up. I'm offering introductory discounts now through November 30 on most of my services.
In all situations, detach from every person, place, and thing. To do this say: Detach. This keeps your energy and sovereignty intact when you make decisions, so you aren't influenced by unwanted energies. Equally as important, it enables you to observe situations from a third person point of view, so you can assess and respond (rather than react) with clear eyes and a ready heart.
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*When we innerstand something, you know it in your heart; when you understand something, you rationalize with the ego/mind.
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Super powerful message and definitely worth the read!